It Was Never Ridiculous. It Was Magic….

When we are children, we believe in things with our whole hearts. We believe in the tooth fairy slipping into our rooms while we sleep, in the Easter Bunny hiding bright eggs in the grass, in Santa Claus crossing the night sky with a sleigh full of miracles. We believe in Bigfoot somewhere beyond the tree line, in ghosts and ghouls waiting for Halloween, in fairytales whispered from one generation to the next.

And then we grow older, and the world tells us those beliefs are ridiculous.

But are they?

Childhood is the one place in life where belief does not have to prove itself. A shadow can become a monster. A coin under a pillow can become evidence of something unseen. A story can become a doorway. The impossible is not yet impossible because no one has convinced us that it should be.

That kind of belief may look silly from the outside, especially through adult eyes. Adults are taught to ask for facts, explanations, receipts, and reasons. We learn to measure the world by what we can see, touch, prove, and understand. Somewhere along the way, wonder starts to feel like something we are supposed to outgrow.

But those childhood beliefs were never only about the tooth fairy, the Easter Bunny, Bigfoot, Santa Claus, ghosts, ghouls, fairytales, or legends of old. They were about imagination. They were about hope. They were about learning to expect that good things could happen, even when we could not explain how.

Maybe things begin to seem ridiculous because growing up asks us to trade wonder for certainty. We learn how money works, how traditions are planned, how costumes are made, how stories are written, and how legends are passed down. The curtain gets pulled back. The mystery becomes explainable.

At first, that can feel like losing something. Discovering the truth behind a childhood belief can feel like the world has taken away a secret. But maybe it is not really a loss. Maybe it is a rite of passage. Maybe realizing how the magic was made is part of learning how to make magic for someone else.

We stop being only the ones who believe, and we become the ones who create belief. We hide the eggs. We place the coin beneath the pillow. We wrap the gifts. We tell the stories. We light the jack-o’-lanterns and pass down the legends. We become part of the great chain of imagination that reached us when we were small.

There is something beautiful about the way these stories teach us to expect miracles. Not the grand, impossible kind every day, but the small ones: a surprise, a kindness, a mystery, a moment that makes life feel bigger than the ordinary. Childhood magic teaches us to look for goodness. It teaches us that the world can still hold wonder.

Fairytales and legends have always done this. They carry lessons inside enchantment. They warn us, comfort us, entertain us, and remind us that courage often begins in places that feel dark and unknown. The stories may change, but the need for them does not. Every generation inherits a little bit of mystery and then decides what to do with it.

As children, we do not call it tradition. We simply call it real. As adults, we may know more, but knowing more does not have to mean feeling less. We can understand the truth behind the story and still honor what the story gave us.

I do not think I feel any of it is ridiculous now. Not really. I think what changes is not the value of the magic, but our understanding of it. We grow up and learn that some miracles are made by loving hands. Some wonders are built out of effort, secrecy, joy, and care. Some legends survive because people keep telling them.

Maybe that is why we hold on. Because those beliefs helped carry us from one version of ourselves to the next. They gave our imaginations room to stretch. They helped us believe that the unseen could still matter, that goodness could arrive quietly, that mystery was not something to fear but something to wonder about.

Growing older does not have to mean putting away the magic. Sometimes it means recognizing it for what it was all along… love, imagination, hope, tradition, and the beautiful human desire to believe that life is more than what we can explain.

It was never ridiculous.

It was magic… STILL IS

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