Rambling on about the First Steps into a New Year….

It has only been six days into the new year, and I find myself reflecting on the significance of these first steps. Each January, there’s an unmistakable sense of possibility, of fresh starts and clean slates. But this year feels different, a little more intentional, a little more personal. I’ve decided that this will be a year where I put myself first, prioritize my well-being, and strive to correct a few things that have weighed on me. I want to make things happen, not just for the sake of change, but for the sake of growth…. MINE.

For a long time, I’ve put others before myself, sometimes at the expense of my health, happiness, and dreams. Stepping into the new year, I made a commitment to myself that this is my time to think about my needs and my aspirations. It’s not selfish, but it feels that way to me… It’s necessary. Self-reflection is the first step to becoming the person I genuinely want to be. I recognize there are habits to break, relationships to mend, and goals to pursue. These changes won’t happen overnight, but with each passing day, I am hoping to do the work, taking small, deliberate actions toward becoming a better version of myself.

I believe that real and lasting transformation requires more than just willpower. It needs a foundation of faith. That’s why I started this year with a prayer, asking God to guide me, help me overcome my weaknesses, and empower me to become who I’m meant to be. I was inspired and touched by the movie The War Room. If you are circling and stagnant, needing direction or inspiration, I encourage you…Watch It. There is comfort in knowing I’m not alone on this journey, but then I have always known I was not alone.

This process isn’t about dramatic resolutions or overwhelming change. It’s about steady progress, one day at a time. Whether it’s carving out moments for self-care, setting boundaries, or simply being kinder in my thoughts, these small steps make a difference. I’m learning to celebrate my progress, no matter how modest, and to forgive myself when I falter. I am spending this year at war for my family, my faith, and my future. The journey to a better me is ongoing, and that’s okay.

As I continue to move forward, I feel hope and determination. The first six days have already taught me that intention, prayer, and self-love are powerful tools for change. This year, with God’s help, I will correct, or try to, what needs correcting. My War against the devil, I am sure, will be interesting.  I am excited to see where this journey takes me. I am looking for signs and grateful for every step along the way. As for the world climate… well it is still spinning out of control. I feel like a Sparrow caught in a hurricane.

Just Breathe… the Battle is on!